A known woman suffers lot. Actually she had problems before marriage. Now she is with her husband in Paris. Her husband does not want to live with her. No one is there to help her. The doctor in Paris said nothing wrong with her.
But she was diagnised and got treatment in her backhome. She was ok after that treatment. What can we do to solve this situation?
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Where have you dropped the peace?
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4 comments:
I assume that the husband is ignorning wife because of her past illness. For this kind of situation, professional counselling is the best. They can make him realize the importance of caring and also about the illness that's already been treated. The wife can also benefit from a counselling session where she would get the motivation and confidence that struggle is a part of life and that she has been fighting it really well.
weekend warrior:
thank you for your suggestion. As friends (from different country) we have mentioned this. Language is the obstacle. They are in france. the silly reason pointed out that counselling is not availabale in English.
Kajan, How about friends of the couple doing the counselling & encouraging part? Lot of times, it helps to have both of them in the same room ith a moderator to sort out issues. This appears to be a case of low motivation and some mis-communication. Anyways, good luck to them :)
Kajan,
I may sound very unorthodox, nevertheless, MARRIAGE IS NOT AN INSTITUTION to forcefully make two ppl who are not in love with each other stay together under social pressure.
IF counselling works fine, else ITS BETTER TO CALL OFF in a decent freindly way, esp when they are not responsible towards any young offsprings.
As I understand, they both seem the husband seem to have no love towards the wife and may be vice versa too.
Unless social pressures are too much and too delicate to deal with, WHY SHOULD TOO UNWILLING PPL live under the same roof, in the name of marriage?
No intention to post strong, THESE ARE JUST MY PERSONAL opinions
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